Parental alienation refers to the psychological manipulation of a child wherein one parent turns the child against the other. This can cause unwarranted fear or hostility towards one or both of their guardians during a divorce. Understanding the implications and how to handle parental alienation is crucial for protecting the well-being of the family.
Signs of parental alienation
Some examples of behaviors in children that indicate parental alienation are change in feelings, parroting the alienating parent, or defensive justification of hateful behavior against their parents. It is important to be aware of these signs from your child.
On the other hand, looking at the alienating parent’s behavior can be just as telling. An alienating parent may speak poorly of their former partner or withhold contact and information. They may also inappropriately confide in their child or tell them the other party doesn’t love them.
Consequences of parental alienation
Parental alienation is damaging to a child. A study by the National Library of Medicine conducted on children exposed to parental alienation reveals the negative side effects linger well into adulthood.
One or both parents manipulating the child can lead to high levels of emotional distress and increase the likelihood of behavioral problems.
Moreover, experiencing parental alienation causes children to have worse relationships with their parents. This severance of trust often resulted in a lack of closeness with peers as well.
Legal options
In Illinois, the legal system recognizes the impact of parental alienation on both children and parents. You can pursue several courses of action in the event of parental alienation.
Some consider parental alienation as a form of child abuse. If the parent can provide enough evidence of parental alienation, the courts may modify custody arrangements in response.
Alternatively, you can opt for family therapy. Therapy can repair relationships and address underlying issues between parents and their children. In the same vein, there are parental education programs. By attending, the alienating parent is able to understand their impact and find better ways to cope with the separation.
Understanding the signs and how to react
The issue of parental alienation requires a sensitive and informed approach to navigate the legal and personal challenges it presents for your family during divorce. Recognizing the signs is the first step. Knowing the legal options is the second. These steps will help you address this conflict and make a healthier environment for you and your child.
